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I’m Brian Carlson, M.S.—a gay man, foster parent, teacher, educator, and life coach. I offer an affirming, judgment-free space for LGBTQ+ individuals, teens, young adults, and families navigating identity, relationships, anxiety, communication, and difficult life transitions. My experience in education, mentoring, and family support helps me offer practical guidance, honest encouragement, and realistic next steps. Whether you are looking for support for yourself, your teen, or your family, you do not have to figure it out alone.
I offer affirming, holistic life coaching for LGBTQIA+ individuals, couples, and families who want to feel more confident, connected, and supported in everyday life. Together, we can work on healthy boundaries, dating and relationships, family dynamics, career and job goals, self-worth, and creating a life that feels true to who you are. I also provide practical support with navigating government and community systems, finding helpful resources, and building meaningful community. My coaching is compassionate, judgment-free, and focused on realistic next steps that help you move forward.
Families do not have to face difficult seasons alone. I offer practical, compassionate coaching for parents, teens, and young adults navigating anxiety, communication struggles, screen and social-media challenges, low motivation, school or job transitions, and uncertainty about the future. Together, we can build healthier routines, clearer boundaries, stronger communication, and realistic next steps toward greater confidence and independence.
Executive functioning coaching helps teens, young adults, and adults build the everyday skills that make school, work, and life feel more manageable. Together, we work on planning, organization, prioritizing, time management, starting tasks, staying focused, and following through.
If you often feel scattered, overwhelmed, behind, or stuck—even when you know what you need to do—you are not lazy. You may simply need systems and strategies that work with your brain. Coaching gives you practical tools, steady accountability, and a realistic plan for moving forward.
As both a teacher and a life coach, I understand that follow-through is a skill that can be learned and strengthened. I hold a master's degree in education from Nyack University and a Principal Leadership Certificate from the American College of Education. I am a certified teacher in Illinois, Texas, and New York, and I am also dual-language certified.
I bring 10 years of teaching experience, including dual-language teaching in Berwyn, bilingual teaching in Chicago Public Schools, and fifth-grade and STEM teaching in San Antonio. As a school supervisor in Tegucigalpa, Honduras, I worked directly with teachers and parents and created individualized plans for students. Across those settings, I learned how to break big goals into manageable steps, build routines that stick, and help people stay accountable without shame.
We begin by looking honestly at where things are breaking down—missed assignments, unfinished projects, cluttered schedules, forgotten appointments, difficulty getting started, or trouble finishing what matters most. Then we build a plan around your strengths, responsibilities, and real life.
Your coaching may include:
Creating a simple planner or calendar system you will actually use
Breaking large assignments and projects into clear next steps
Building routines for mornings, homework, work, and winding down
Using checklists, reminders, and visual systems to support focus and memory
Planning each week, setting priorities, and preparing for deadlines
Reviewing what worked, adjusting what did not, and celebrating real progress
We meet by video for supportive, practical coaching sessions, with clear action steps between meetings. For teens, parents can be included in a way that supports the teen's growing independence rather than turning coaching into another source of conflict at home.
Executive functioning coaching is skills coaching—not therapy and not tutoring. It is about understanding how you work best, building systems you can trust, and developing the confidence that comes from following through.
I support LGBTQIA+ people who want a safe, affirming space to work through life’s challenges and move toward the future they want. Whether you are navigating identity, dating and relationships, boundaries, family dynamics, self-worth, career goals, community, or finding helpful resources, coaching can help you gain clarity, confidence, and practical next steps.
I support parents and families who feel overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure how to help a teen or young adult who is struggling. Whether your family is navigating communication challenges, anxiety, screen and social-media habits, motivation, boundaries, school or job transitions, or a young adult who feels stuck, I offer practical coaching, encouragement, and realistic tools to help your family reconnect and move forward together.
The teen and young-adult years can feel overwhelming—and you don't have to face them alone. I help young people build motivation and focus, create healthier routines and screen habits, grow their confidence, and plan realistic next steps for school, work, and life.